The morbid puts us to a hundred; that is a reality, and practicing sex in a “standard way” already looks like a thing of the last century. Do you know what? Let’s head out searching.
We are people, animals that have a series of physiological needs. One of them is plainly sex, an act that is practiced by the majority of individuals who populate this planet (and I say the majority because there are individuals who do not need it in their lives).
In the same way, throughout history various sexual practices have actually been incorporated that sought to move away from “the traditional”, trying to bring “greater enjoyment” to our sexual encounters.
One of these satisfaction, as revealed in the title of the post, has actually ended up being sex in public areas, something that has actually long been trendy amongst the most bold, amongst those who do not like the exhibit. It doesn’t look like a principle to be embarrassed of at all. There are those who claim that making love with complete strangers increases enjoyment, so that our cravings and determination to repeat the experience will also be affected.
However is everyone ready to make love in broad daylight in an open area accessible to anybody? Most likely not. In fact, this practice has always been “associated” in a more direct method to the homosexual neighborhood under the name of travelling, a principle that, according to the RAE (Royal Spanish Academy), refers to the “English term that specifies sex in public locations, such as parks, beaches or vacant lots, primarily describing homosexual guys”.
However why should this be something we identify as gay? The newspaper El Mundo discusses it to us, and given that, regrettably, we still live in a society that judges the LGTBI community, these behaviors help to act inconspicuously. It appears astounding that meeting a complete stranger for a minute with the objective of sharing enjoyment in a practically random location will always be much easier than bold to go out holding hands on the street. After all, in the very first case you must not offer any description to anyone. You show up, wet and goodbye excellent.
According to this very same paper mentioned, in Spain we are clearly succumbing to this new secret code of sex,” […] leaving en route the most veterans, accustomed to often visiting bathrooms and toilets of exchangers, and of popular establishments.”. It seems that now the adrenaline moves us more and the understanding that anytime we can be hunted. The morbid, perhaps.
And not everything appears to stay in the basic reality of going to certain locations to make love, however rather that “cruising” is ending up being a growing number of noticeable likewise through socials media. If we do a little explore tools like Twitter, we can quickly find messages like: “Is anybody in retirement now and desires a penis? #cruising”.
Do we understand, then, that discretion is likewise being lost?
Even so, it is required to point out that, in case of wanting to succumb to making love in “open public space”, always, and I repeat, always, precautions (sexual and safety) must be taken, given that according to a recent study in another paper of the Spanish state, there have actually been many burglaries and/or attacks on individuals who simply wanted to let themselves be carried away by enjoyment.
These are people who act out of hatred for the homosexual community or who merely think that it is a chance in which it is much easier for them to carry out the theft, considering that it is a moment in which the other person is totally vulnerable. In addition, we must take into consideration a substantial part of the guys who carry out this kind of practice are individuals who have probably not yet revealed themselves as they really are before society, perhaps since they have not seen themselves with the needed forces and/or since At home, a household is awaiting them that they fear breaking up. In any case, despite the truth that we have the authentic right to be able to enjoy our body and whoever we like, it is incredibly essential to know who we are with.
In fact, if we were likewise referring to sexual safety measures, it is obviously due to the fact that of the chances that something will not work out from this relationship. You ought to always bring a condom with you, as it might turn out that a person of these days you discover that you need it. Ferran Pujol, director of BCN Checkpoint, a center for the detection of HIV in gays, explains: “Cruising has existed all our lives and carries risks, like any other sexual activity. Although, if the place is not suitable, it is difficult to have preventive steps in hand”.
As may be evident, sex in public areas is not limited by people who become part of the homosexual community, as the terms of Bud Sex and Dogging are also extremely practiced and performed. Oh, how do you know them? Let’s see.
While “Bud Sex” happens sex between “heterosexual” men who want to have an experience that is far from the regular, “Dogging” consists of sexual relations in public spaces carried out by heterosexual couples. Its origin dates back to the 70s, when with the reason of “going to get the pet dog”, thus dogging, the owners of the exact same took the opportunity to kill 2 birds with one stone. Would you be shocked if I informed you that the twerking we see in clubs comes from something as banal as this? Well yes, it is so.
In this case, it has its own language: if one day you opt for a walk someplace where you discover a car with an open door and the headlights on, you can know for sure that you have free access to go to the “meeting “.
